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Emma Kriskinans's avatar

Not a Dad, and not even a Mum but thank you for writing something so important. To me how a society views and encourages, if not enforces, paternity leave is critical for reaching true equality between men and women, especially in the workplace. Positively changing cultural norms around fatherhood and its perception allows men to show up for their kids and shows their input is valued and needed. In turn this has a positive knock on effect on the opportunities given to women / mothers, and course for the children borne in these societies.

Let’s culturally enshrine that both men and women need support to welcome a new family addition (however they arrived). Let’s make it obvious that a break in work experience does not signify apathy or ‘cause for concern’. And let’s show our kids that we are around for them and value the time we spend with them.

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Josh's avatar

This was a great read. I just finished my paternity "leave" and can't grasp how no leave policy is OK in any healthy society. I was "grateful" for 6 weeks of unpaid leave, and so did my partner. It barely felt like enough before we had to figure out how to pay for extraordinary expensive daycare and get back to work. The economics of this continue to win out over this being a social justice and equity issue. I'm enraged by the systems that uphold this being the "norm," but I'm figuring how to opt out of this and be a different model. Thanks to this community who is also trying to change the norms around this.

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