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Oz's avatar

I loved this post! You're very right in the point that men don't open their feelings that much to other male buddies and when you want to start a dad talk to another dad, you hear lots of stuff like "I don't know that, I don't know this, my wife is handling that" bla bla bla and that sort of nonsense.

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Glad I found this blog in its infancy, and doing my part to help it grow!

I welcomed my first of three children into the world at 25. Surveys routinely show that adults are delaying the onset of parenthood, and that is certainly apparent when I consider my fatherhood network. I’m now 30, and still, none of my male friends have children. A few of them are recently married, or will soon be married. The dads that I know are the husbands of my wife’s (34) friends, my brother-in-law, and my cousin-in-law. All great dads, but no one that I talk to routinely. (Maybe that needs to change!)

It doesn’t help that, as a teacher, most of my colleagues are women. In my cohort, there is a dad (47) who I treat as a sage of parenting, and I can sometimes connect to the moms of the cohort, but again, nothing on a purely peer level.

Oz’s comment struck a chord with me in that I wonder if I am doing more harm than good by taking a sideline approach to fatherhood when compared to my wife.

But all in all, super grateful for this community. Looking forward to the future of the site.

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